Frequently Asked Questions

Big Questions
A living wage for the working poor may mean fewer cheap prices in retail stores.

Q In recent years I’ve gotten fed up with the commercialism of Christmas. How do I convey to my kids and grandkids that I care about them in ways other than the traditional gift-giving that is so central to our celebrations?

A Christmas is a wonderful time of year, and it’s central to our faith! God incarnate; God among us. One might argue that our entire way of life in the West, driven by capitalistic materialism, is completely unsustainable; it is a terrible irony that this holy season has become the focal point of it all. What better time to be counter-cultural?

Yet, as you note, when it comes to family, Christmas gets complex. I encourage you to articulate your concerns to your kids and allow them to communicate to their own children about possible shifts in your upcoming celebrations.

Focus on enjoying a good meal together. Sing some carols. Share the Christmas story. Tell about something God has done in your life over the past year. If you still want to incorporate some giving, consider gifts that are locally produced and sustainably made. Together create and wrap gifts that can be shared with those in need in your community and around the world. World Renew has some great resources for this.

Christmas is a season to celebrate. But it is also a subversive season in which a peasant child was born in the heart of an empire that embraced power. This child grew up to be a prophet whose critique of the status quo was sharp and whose love for the least among us went deep. He calls us to be lovers and prophets still. God is calling us into something new, beautiful, and holy, something that’s good for all people and the entire creation. That’s worthy of a celebration, if you ask me.

—Bryan Berghoef is a church planter in Washington, D.C., and is the author of Pub Theology: Beer, Conversation, and God.

Faith Formation
Q I “married into” the CRC three years ago after being raised Southern Baptist. Our church is a wonderful spiritual home, but I find it odd that our worship never includes testimonies. Why is that?

A You joined us at a good time, because we’re going through a transition, and maybe you are here “for such a time as this.”

Historically the CRC has shied away from testimonies because we felt that they put too much emphasis on glorifying the person instead of the Lord, and their tendency to become somewhat melodramatically emotional (at times) felt “cheesy” to us.

But now we’re realizing that our own manner of reading Scripture as the one coherent story of God’s faithfulness invites us to tell others how our life stories flow from God’s great story. Furthermore, we love the psalms, and they are filled with declarations like “One generation commends your works to another; they tell of your mighty acts” (Ps. 145:4). Those mighty acts are present in our own lives, and we need to tell them. So we’re beginning to “trial-and-error” our way into a Reformed way of including testimonies in our worship, small groups, youth groups, and other places.

Help us make this transition!

—Syd Hielema is a professor of religion and theology at Redeemer University College in Ancaster, Ontario.

Q In church, when I talk about justice for the poor I am labeled a “liberal,” and what I say is dismissed. How can I speak up for justice, as the Bible says, in this context?

A Your question is a common response to presentations I make in CRC circles about doing justice. It saddens and troubles me because it says more about a weak understanding of justice in our churches than it does about your actions. God is not a conservative or a liberal, and talking about justice is not a partisan action.

Labeling is often used to dismiss what challenges us. We tend to be comfortable with talk about helping the poor through charity but less comfortable with justice talk because it focuses on the causes of poverty, and things we enjoy may be part of the problem. A living wage for the working poor, for example, may mean fewer cheap prices in retail stores.

Your question also reflects an unhealthy polarization in our public life that has permeated our churches. Changing that mentality is part of doing justice. Christians should be able to avoid ideological labels and address issues on the basis of ethics rooted in Scripture. Cutting out all the texts dealing with justice for the poor in the Bible would leave holes, literally and spiritually. If justice is central to the Good News we preach, treating it as the hobby of a few “liberals” in church needs to change.

A few practical hints: It helps to start with a story that can’t be dismissed. Two voices or a small group may be taken more seriously. Ask your church leaders to make learning what the Bible says about justice a higher priority. Above all, persist.

—Kathy Vandergrift teaches public ethics to university students and advocates for the rights of children.

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As to the justice question/answer, I differ in my response from that given.

Assuming this really a question from someone, and not a fake question," I don't think the questioner receives the response he/she says he/she gets because of "a weak undertanding of justice in our churches," but because the word itself (whether "justice" or "social justice") has been undergoing a definitional transformation of late that is moving much, much faster than the climate is warming.

It used to be that folks in the CRCNA talked predominantly about "doing mercy."  Now folks in the GR part of the CRCNA tend to not use that word but rather the word "justice" or the phrase "social justice" when they would have appropriately used the word "mercy" in years past.  This causes a lot of confusion who haven't been exposed to the vocabulary transformation.

I've just got done reading three of Nick Wolterstorff's books on this subject and have been otherwise observing this vocabulary change in certain parts of the country.  I seems to be a particularly fashionable theme in the Grand Rapids area right now.

Here's my suggestion as to a solution, again assuming this question is real and not just a set-up: talk about "helping the poor," as opposed to "working for justice for the poor."  Sometimes the poor don't suffer from injustice; they're just poor.  Sometimes injustices happen to people who aren't poor.  If the word "justice" is always used when proposing assistance toward folks who are poor, the meaning communicated is that the poor are poor always and only because they have been dealt injustices, and now they have a "right" to whatever they might demand.  That's why people think you are a political liberal (cuz you sounding like one).

Just walk the talk instead of talk the lingo.  No one will object to that.

Hi, regarding the FAQ question titled "Faith Formation" concerning testimonials, I am heartened to hear that CRC is considering changing their stance on this topic. This shows that we are an open minded, growing and dynamic Church. I like that. I would like to share what Grace Valley CRC has been doing for some time now. After our music and announcements we have a prayer request period where we pray for one another rather than the Pastor taking down a list and giving a blanket prayer. Very popular. Yes it takes more time, but what better way to fellowship than to pray for your neighbor? Then, before collecting the offering we have a "God sighting" time. This is an open mic time when any and all are invited to come forward and share an experience or observation from the previous week where God evidenced Himself. When we first started this practice participation was spotty at best, but as time has gone buy I have witnessed the most introverted people, totally fearful of public speaking step up, grab the mic and share an incident in their lives. This has become a very popular part of our service. Not quite testimonies but sharing God working in our lives really brings a congregation closer together. Just wanted to share what's working for His glory in Las Vegas. Be sure to visit us if you are travelling in this area! Respectfully yours, Elder Denny.