Can a Church Council Meet Without the Pastor?

Our council wants to meet without its pastor. Is that OK?

The first question I would ask in response is, “Why would they want to meet without the pastor?” After all, the pastor is a member of the council, which includes all the office-bearers of a congregation—its minister(s), elders, deacons, and sometimes commissioned pastors, too. So then the question is whether it is appropriate for the council to intentionally meet without one of the members present, and especially when it’s a member in the key role of pastor.

It’s possible that the agenda includes a matter with which the pastor has a conflict of interest, such as his or her salary. But it’s not likely that a whole meeting is called for just that item (during the discussion of which the minister could easily step out).

Maybe the meeting is to discuss a difficult issue, even one that is about the pastor. If that’s the case, it would be even more important to meet with the pastor. Usually it is better to have a direct conversation than one that reinforces whatever tensions exist by avoiding the needed discussion. 

One of the underlying principles of Reformed polity is mutual accountability—that church members and leaders are accountable to each other. Councils should regularly assess their own effectiveness, both individually and as a group. All council members, including the pastor, should be open to discussion of their performance.

This last point brings up a problem I’ve encountered: councils who have sincerely tried to have difficult conversations with their pastor present, but failed because the pastor was domineering and manipulative, using his or her “spiritual authority” to shut down all honest conversation. My advice to always meet with the pastor present cannot be used by such pastors to effectively shut down honest conversation. Councils in this situation should bring in resources like church visitors or an outside facilitator. 

The authors of Crucial Conversations, a book I highly recommend, argue that a critical mark of a healthy organization is its ability to have difficult conversations. If meeting without the pastor is a way to avoid difficult conversations, I would strongly advise against it. 

About the Author

Kathy Smith is senior associate director of the Calvin Institute of Christian Worship and an adjunct professor at Calvin Theological Seminary and Calvin University. She is a member of First CRC in Grand Rapids, Mich.

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I can appreciate the importance of applying Church Order in this situation, however not only is a pastor eccelesiastically an elder and civilly an employee; but council is also both an eccelesiastical body and an incorporated civil body. Both spheres from a human resources / labour relations perspective share some commonalities, but also differences in the area of board operation.

Just as a council may go into "censure morem" excluding non council members; a board may also go into "executive session" where all non-directors, including employees are excluded. Difficult conversations usually require the exclusion of one party part way into the process, while directors deliberate, seek advice and make decisions on a critical matter, especially if it affects a senior employee. Prior to this occuring there should already have been difficult conversations with the employee, prior to it coming to the full board / council.

Thanks for this helpful addition, Lubbert!

You're welcome. Appreciated your advice on administering communion in a time of pandemic. May our Lord keep you and family safe and in good health.

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