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The Banner has a subscription to republish articles from Religion News Service. This story by Yonat Shimron was published on Aug. 15, 2022. It has been edited for length.

In an email sent to church members on Aug. 13, leadership of The Meeting House, a  multisite megachurch in and around Toronto, Ont., said recent independent investigations into former pastor Bruxy Cavey found two additional claims of sexual abuse to be credible. It also found a fourth claim amounted to “sexual misconduct.” In addition, the church acknowledged that one of the victims was a minor when Cavey abused her. 

Cavey was asked to step down in March. In May he was arrested and charged with one count of sexual assault. 

For the first time, the church’s overseers, or board of trustees, said Cavey’s behavior in three of the cases amounted to sexual abuse, not just sexual harassment or abuse of power as it had previously maintained.

“We’re aware that not using more defined language signaled to some that we weren’t willing to name the abuse for what it was or that it was downplaying the findings,” said Jennifer Hryniw, a member of the board of overseers, during an Aug.14 town hall meeting. “We apologize sincerely for the harm this has caused. It was never our intention.”

They also apologized to the first woman for not previously characterizing Cavey’s actions toward her as abuse.

“We have now concluded as a board that the actions substantiated in the first investigation constitute sexual abuse by a church leader,” the overseers said in Saturday’s email. “We truly apologize to the first victim for the length of time this has taken.”

The church, part of Be In Christ, an Anabaptist denomination, is henceforth adopting the definition of sexual abuse used by the Mennonite Central Committee, another Anabaptist denomination, the overseers said.

The overseers said the church was now working to put in place policy statements and trainings for all staff and volunteers on sexual abuse. In addition, it was committed to reorganizing.

“Power should never be top-down,” said Nour Aziz, one of the church overseers. “We want to reorganize our accountabilities so there’s a shared power approach.”

The church overseers declined to offer more details about the nature of the abuse. In response to a question about why Cavey has not been allowed to publicly answer to allegations, Hryniw said: “Unless someone fully admits and fully repents we’re not giving an opportunity to speak to our community.”

Cavey grew The Meeting House into a megachurch with some 5,000 people attending 19 campuses. (The church now has 14 locations.) With his long hair and tattoos and folksy demeanor, he became one of Canada’s best-known evangelical preachers.

In response to a question from a member of the church at a Town Hall meeting Aug. 14, overseer Bruce Miller said Hamilton (Ont.) police have been notified of the investigation’s conclusions.

He also said the church paid the victims for counseling.

After hiring a victim advocate, the church overseers said 38 people had come forward with information about sexual abuse at the church. The outside investigator hired by the church found that another former pastor of The Meeting House, Tim Day, had committed sexual abuse. (Years ago, two former youth pastors also were charged with sexual assault or sexual exploitation.)

The church is now led by interim senior pastor Karmyn Bokma and interim senior director Matt Miles.

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