My parents need more support, but my siblings don’t want to help. How can I get them to step up and honor their father and mother?
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My married kids don’t want to have children. To me, this is a self-centered decision. How can I convince them to be fruitful and multiply?
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I struggle with my kids’ constant fighting. How can I stop the competition so our home can find some peace?
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Should we connect with a former daughter-in-law for the sake of our grandkids when our son would feel betrayed by our having any connection?
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I am concerned that by preserving my marriage I am compromising myself and risking my emotional, mental, and physical health.
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It’s clear our college-age children are living with their partners out of wedlock. We know breaking ties is not a good response, but how do we convey our disapproval?
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My elderly mother has little interest in discussing details that might help us plan a meaningful funeral service. Any suggestions?
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Is it OK to charge my adult children rent as a means of teaching responsibility?
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My teen is always coming up with foolish ideas, and we end up arguing endlessly. Any thoughts on how to break the cycle?
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Relationships can withstand tremendous amounts of hard truths, but they collapse quickly under the weight of deception.
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Our children look to us as their example for how to live. Through us, they discern a model for how to live as broken people in a broken world.
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My mom is refusing to follow through with the medical treatment the doctor is recommending. She knows this will likely shorten her life, yet she remains stubborn. How can I get her to see her life’s value to us and especially to her grandkids?
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Should I reconsider retirement plans if I am concerned about having too much “together time” with my husband? I love him but am worried we’ll get on each other’s nerves.
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How can I tell if I am emotionally healthy?
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My husband and I can’t agree on whether we should be cremated or not. Is there any biblical instruction for this?
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I was a child of Dutch immigrants in the 1950s, and my adult children are now asking more details about their grandparents, of whom they all have wonderful impressions.
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It feels as if the CRC is headed for a denominational divorce over LGBTQ+ concerns. Is a church split inevitable?
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My next-door neighbor and I are both moms in our 30s with kids close in age. I’ve tried to form a friendship with her, but she is not interested even in casually chatting. I am disappointed. What should I do?
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What is gaslighting, and how do we respond to people who gaslight us?
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My siblings and I can’t seem to agree on end-of-life decisions for our parents, and they do not have a living will. How do we find consensus, if not agreement?
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I grew up with the admonition, “If you’re not ready to mate, you’re not ready to date,” meaning don’t date until you’re ready for the long commitment of marriage. How do I convey this principle to my teenagers when their friends have girlfriends?
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What do I say to young adults in my family when they say they have left the church because they were hurt by the church?
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My father thinks it’s God-ordained, but my mother disagrees. Who is right?